Building the foundations of the family

The importance of building a happy family

Many people ask happiness, and seek comfort and seeks stability and calm the soul and mind, as sought in the dimension of the reasons for the misery and turmoil, and triggers anxiety, particularly in Albiotat and families.
It teaches that all of this can only be achieved: faith in God alone, and trust in him, and delegating things to him, including the taking of his Sunan and laws of reasons.
The importance of building family and intimacy in the marital home:
Although one of the greatest influences on the individual and on the group: build a family and integrity on the right; God Almighty in his wisdom, make decent shelter, which prepared him for humans from a male and a female. . Settle it and live it, Icol- Almighty and hallowed Osmaah- grateful slaves: (that He created for you wives from among yourselves to dwell in them and put between you affection and mercy in that are Signs for those who reflect) Yes, to live it, not least to live with it, which confirms the meaning of stability in behavior and in the sense of calm, and bring comfort and reassurance to the highest sense; Every couple of finds in the owner when calm anxiety, and joviality when narrow.
The basis of the marital relationship: companionship and pairing Alqaúman on the friendliness and intimacy and harmony. The relationship of these deep-rooted long durations, it's more like a link to one himself, including the Book of our Lord saying: (are you dress and you wear them)
As well as the creation of such relationship of education for boys and girls and to ensure that young people. . Which can only be done in light of maternity and paternity caring proletariat. .
Environment and any purer than this family atmosphere Quran? .

Building the foundations of the family

There are many things underlying the construction of the family and cemented the marital relationship, and away from where the winds of disintegration, and hurricanes schizophrenia and Altsrm: -
(1) faith in God and piety: The first of these things and the most important: adhering to the faith most trustworthy loop. . Faith in God and the Last Day, and the fear of what Tknh familiar with the pronouns, and the necessity of piety and surveillance, and distance from the injustice and arbitrariness in the right request. (Such is preached by Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, and whosoever fears Allah makes his way out and give him * from where the count and he puts his trust God suffices)
And strengthens this belief: diligence in obedience and worship and to ensure them and advise others out between the couple, Consider Colh- peace be upon him: (God bless the man who rose from the night he prayed and awakened his wife separated, the Abt perfusion in the face with water - means: spraying them with water Rasha Rafiqa- and God bless the woman who has separated from the night and awakened her husband prayed, the father Ndan in the face with water).
The relationship between the couple's relationship is not mundane material, sensuality and bestiality, it's a spiritual relationship dignified, and when this relationship is valid and ratify this trait, they extend into the afterlife after death: (they enter the Garden of Eden is a reconciliation of their parents, their spouses and their offspring)

(2) cohabitation: that which preserves this relationship and maintain. . Cohabitation, not be achieved without knowing what each party is and what it. Although the pursuit of perfection in the House and the people of the house is impossible, and hope to complete all the qualities in them or in other elusive something in the human copyright.
The role of the husband to maintain the marital home and cohabitation:
It is prudence and maturity of thinking localization of self to accept some inconveniences, and soft for some upsets, and Alrgel- He is the Lord Alosrh- demands Ptsber himself more than women, have learned that they are weak in created it and created it, if Hospt everything failed everything, and exaggeration in evaluation leads to broken and broken her divorce, says Mustafa, who does not speak Alhoy- peace be upon him: (and Treat women kindly, they were created from the rib, albeit erratically something in the rib above, I went hosted break it, but his legacy is still crooked Fastousoa women well) .
Valaauajjaj in the women out of the purpose of procreation must be Msajrih and patience.
For a man not voyager with what may appear from the frustration of his family and spend some of those shortcomings, and to remember the good aspects to them and it Wajid in something so much.
In such a saying of the Prophet, peace be upon him: (not rubbed Mamna- any believer: I do not hate nor Al- that dislikes one of her pleased with another) .olatan in so much For if he saw some of what he hates he does not know where the causes of goodness and righteousness resources .
Icol- Izz Qaúl- of L and the interpretation of the meaning Ltamohen may be that you dislike a thing and Allah makes it much good).
And how to be comfortable? Where housing and affection? If the householder heavy Copyright, bad ten narrow-minded, Igelbh idiots, and Aamah accelerate, slow in delight, fast in anger, if income Many aphids, and if it comes out Vsai conjecture. It was learned that good treatment and causes of happiness can only be done in a soft and away from the suspicions and fantasies that are unfounded, that jealousy may go to some people's mistrust. . Reason to doubt the interpretation of speech and in actions, which gripped live and worry of mind of a document that is true.
(Not to Tdharohn Tadhaqgua them) How have said, "peace be upon him": (Jerkm best to his family, and I'm good for my family) ..


The wife's role in maintaining the marital home and cohabitation:

The Muslim Family: You should know that happiness and love and compassion are not only when they are relevant chastity and religion, do not know what has overtaken not exceed, responds to her husband;, which is enshrined in his stewardship and preserve them and spend them? Obligatory to obey him and saved his money and in itself, have mastered the work and play and take care of herself and her home, they are a good wife and mother Chafika, sponsor in her husband's house and is responsible for her flock, her husband does not recognize the lovely disguise for preferred and ten good. Warns the Prophet-peace be upon him - this disguises and says: (shown Hell If more people women, Ikvrn said: Oikvrn God? Said: no. Ikvrn Intimates; if done well for one of them forever then she saw something from you said: What I've seen you better never) .
It must be soft-Hamad gaffes and goofs about. . Do not offend him if not attended betray if you missed.
This gets compromise and lasts ten prevails Elven and love and compassion. And (Any woman who died by her husband satisfied entered Paradise).
Flanalm all that obtaining happiness harmony available, and preparing the atmosphere for good breeding, and arise Atomic cream in the house is full of affection Amer understanding. . Hanan between maternity and paternity mind. . Away from the bustle of disputes and differences, and affect each and every one over the other, there is a schism nor dispute nor ill.
(Our Lord, Grant us from our wives and our offspring the apple of the eyes and make us pious imam)
The Salah family through the safety of the entire group, and will not fit society and the Hunt family sling. How God has blessed this blessing. . The grace of meeting the family and friendliness and interdependence of the Almighty said: (God make you wives from among yourselves and make your wives and sons and grandsons provided you with good things Avbalbatal Benamt believe in God and they disbelieve)
The couple and two of the firm relationship, though parents and grow up in Ahdanama of boys and girls represent lectured the nation and its future, and then the devil while not succeed in decoding links family, it does not destroy the beta one, does not happen evil is limited, but the sign of the nation in harm raging evil metastasizes. In fact, now is the best witness.
God have mercy on a man Mahmoud biography, good conscience, easy companion, Lena gracious, merciful with his family at his firm, does not cost prohibitive and do not overtax hardship, but does not neglect the responsibility. And God bless the woman does not ask Glta not abound controversy valid Qanth portfolio including unseen God save.
May God reward and also took into account the wife's right man, and fearing God and in the right to it.