Intelligent Guide marital happiness
In this context, «and Bimad» magazine medical and psychological study
published writer Denise Dan, which she spoke about the cornerstones for
the protection of the marital institution and continuity under the title
«Your guide to a successful marriage», and the study included the most
important practices that ensure a happy married life and the required
foundations to resist divorce:
1. laughter and fun
According to Denise Dunn, fun hours and times of laughter that Tmzianha together is the first pillar of the successful marriage and happy. Reported in her study that the moments of humor alleviate the problems and the sharp differences, where create happy memories like its hearts and promote love and affection between couples.
2. Freedom
What is meant here the freedom of the times that spend freely spend all of the partners selected hours alone, away from the partner. Despite the need for bilateral spend a long time together, they require little to move away and spend all their time alone in which each own hobbies, or go to friends, or take advantage of the opportunity to retired himself and audited practiced.
3. discussions aimed
There are discussed to gain points in his favor, or to prove that he is right, but that the discussions between couples is not circuit duel must prevail where one of the parties, but rather a means to express two opinions and come through them to one summary of the goals and ideas shared.
4. Friends of each party
The most important rules of successful married life, that both of you have friends rapporteurs him, who are selected by personal freedom, and in line with the psychological and social comfort, location, taking into account the marital rules. In spite of the need for a mutual friends between you, Vankma that needed to independents friends.
5. Personal Independent
To be married, does not mean that you cancel your personality and your own feelings and thoughts and merge one character with a partner. Marriage is a meeting and understanding between the two characters separate and different. And successful marriage is the one who keeps the personal Partyah each independent of the other character, each of you has his own opinion and point of view and ideas.
6. determine family relationships
Marriage does not mean severing ties with the two families, but it imposes on couples set limits for the two families so as to prevent foreign intervention and suppression of personal freedom, thus creating problems and differences between couples. To succeed marriage, the husband to put an end to interference in the affairs of his parents and his wife, and the rules of his doubles, as well as the matter with respect to the wife and her parents.
7. difference fortune to marry
Partner has absolute freedom in the difference in opinion about the other opinion, for every opinion in different matters. This is what is essential in the marital relationship and couples must maintain it and considering it, not unlike the difference between them, because of this difference stems from the different culture, the environment and the way of education and multi-life experiences.
8. courtship and flattery
Is not only women who need to hear the words of spinning and flattery, but also the man. Denise says Dan Speech beautiful phrases spinning, truer expression of loyalty and love between couples, which serves as food and water for the noble feelings and love between the two partners.
9. passion for a common future
It is important to think about the future of one joint, and work together for him eagerly and enthusiasm, it can not be for the marriage to be crowned with success and happiness in the case was one of the partners does not care about the future and working to achieve a better married life on various social and family levels. At the sound of the marital relationship, the couple shared concerns for the future and planning for a better life.
10. Emotions renewed
Love after marriage needs to be renewed, and the attraction of the partner and the renewal of the feelings of the most important factors, and the need to achieve a happy marriage and a successful emotional life. The emotions can be renewed in the celebration of marital events, and the preparation of surprises, and mutual gifts and spend a romantic times between now and then.
11. Shared secrets
It may seem conceal secrets issue is essential to also, but it is the most important and influential in the marital relationship, it is necessary to feel his partner and his partner interest of keeping secrets and feelings into account.
12. economic conditions
Maintaining stable economic life issue utmost importance, Lack of economic stability creates trouble and promotes marital problems and fed. While achieve economic stability psychologically stable and comfortable and this is reflected positively on the emotional relationship between couples.
13. Children
After a certain period of marriage, especially after the first three years, decays love and boredom dominated the relationship, and here lies the necessity of having children break the boredom and reinforce love and harmony between couples and increase stability and strength of the marriage.
14. Working Hours
We must not lose a partner in order to work and because of the long hours and work for hours late at night. The limits on working hours and achieve a balance between life and those of marital important issue and protect the fundamental failure of the marriage and connects you to the path of happiness.
15. Low sound
Yes, the voice of the unexpected importance in maintaining the integrity of marriage, because the higher the sound around you and get angry Istvzhm during the conversation, otherwise low noise of Ihnn hearts and feel comfortable and safe.
1. laughter and fun
According to Denise Dunn, fun hours and times of laughter that Tmzianha together is the first pillar of the successful marriage and happy. Reported in her study that the moments of humor alleviate the problems and the sharp differences, where create happy memories like its hearts and promote love and affection between couples.
2. Freedom
What is meant here the freedom of the times that spend freely spend all of the partners selected hours alone, away from the partner. Despite the need for bilateral spend a long time together, they require little to move away and spend all their time alone in which each own hobbies, or go to friends, or take advantage of the opportunity to retired himself and audited practiced.
3. discussions aimed
There are discussed to gain points in his favor, or to prove that he is right, but that the discussions between couples is not circuit duel must prevail where one of the parties, but rather a means to express two opinions and come through them to one summary of the goals and ideas shared.
4. Friends of each party
The most important rules of successful married life, that both of you have friends rapporteurs him, who are selected by personal freedom, and in line with the psychological and social comfort, location, taking into account the marital rules. In spite of the need for a mutual friends between you, Vankma that needed to independents friends.
5. Personal Independent
To be married, does not mean that you cancel your personality and your own feelings and thoughts and merge one character with a partner. Marriage is a meeting and understanding between the two characters separate and different. And successful marriage is the one who keeps the personal Partyah each independent of the other character, each of you has his own opinion and point of view and ideas.
6. determine family relationships
Marriage does not mean severing ties with the two families, but it imposes on couples set limits for the two families so as to prevent foreign intervention and suppression of personal freedom, thus creating problems and differences between couples. To succeed marriage, the husband to put an end to interference in the affairs of his parents and his wife, and the rules of his doubles, as well as the matter with respect to the wife and her parents.
7. difference fortune to marry
Partner has absolute freedom in the difference in opinion about the other opinion, for every opinion in different matters. This is what is essential in the marital relationship and couples must maintain it and considering it, not unlike the difference between them, because of this difference stems from the different culture, the environment and the way of education and multi-life experiences.
8. courtship and flattery
Is not only women who need to hear the words of spinning and flattery, but also the man. Denise says Dan Speech beautiful phrases spinning, truer expression of loyalty and love between couples, which serves as food and water for the noble feelings and love between the two partners.
9. passion for a common future
It is important to think about the future of one joint, and work together for him eagerly and enthusiasm, it can not be for the marriage to be crowned with success and happiness in the case was one of the partners does not care about the future and working to achieve a better married life on various social and family levels. At the sound of the marital relationship, the couple shared concerns for the future and planning for a better life.
10. Emotions renewed
Love after marriage needs to be renewed, and the attraction of the partner and the renewal of the feelings of the most important factors, and the need to achieve a happy marriage and a successful emotional life. The emotions can be renewed in the celebration of marital events, and the preparation of surprises, and mutual gifts and spend a romantic times between now and then.
11. Shared secrets
It may seem conceal secrets issue is essential to also, but it is the most important and influential in the marital relationship, it is necessary to feel his partner and his partner interest of keeping secrets and feelings into account.
12. economic conditions
Maintaining stable economic life issue utmost importance, Lack of economic stability creates trouble and promotes marital problems and fed. While achieve economic stability psychologically stable and comfortable and this is reflected positively on the emotional relationship between couples.
13. Children
After a certain period of marriage, especially after the first three years, decays love and boredom dominated the relationship, and here lies the necessity of having children break the boredom and reinforce love and harmony between couples and increase stability and strength of the marriage.
14. Working Hours
We must not lose a partner in order to work and because of the long hours and work for hours late at night. The limits on working hours and achieve a balance between life and those of marital important issue and protect the fundamental failure of the marriage and connects you to the path of happiness.
15. Low sound
Yes, the voice of the unexpected importance in maintaining the integrity of marriage, because the higher the sound around you and get angry Istvzhm during the conversation, otherwise low noise of Ihnn hearts and feel comfortable and safe.
